I recently shared my gift guide for the little boys in your life. Today, I’m sharing my picks for the special little girls in your life – all under $50!  Happy Shopping!

  1. Barbie Glam Vacation House
  2. Melissa and Doug Deluxe Standing Easel
  3. Barbie Collector 2011 Holiday Doll
  4. Fisher-Price Disney’s Rock Star Mickey
  5. Fashion Design Studio Kit
  6. Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Stroll-Along Walker
  7. Nail Art Salon Set
  8. Fisher-Price Kid-Tough Digital Camera – Pink
  9. LeapFrog Leapster Explorer Learning Game System (Green)

I am pleased to bring to you Barbara R. Greenberg, Ph.D, a teen parenting expert and co-writer of the hit book “Teenage as a Second Language: A Parent’s Guide to Becoming Bilingual.”  She is also a respected speaker, avid reader and loves all things related to physical fitness.

Barbara Greenberg and her professional partner, Jennifer A. Powell-Lunder, Psy.D, have set up an interactive website for parents and teens to listen, learn and discuss hot topics and daily dilemmas. You can find it at www.talkingteenage.com.

Does Your Teen Make You Frumpy, Lumpy & Crazy?

Let’s face it — once you have kids you are never quite the same. You chop off your hair so that you can wash and wear. Much of the affection that you reserved for your partner is now lavished on your offspring. Your body is exhausted by caring for the kids, so it becomes less about sex and more about nurturance.

Time passes. Your babies grow into toddlers.  Your hair has grown a bit and is now usually up in a ponytail. If you go to the grocery store you can usually identify the moms of toddlers by their look. It’s usually a ponytail, a little lip gloss, jeans, and an easy to slip on pair of boots or flip-flops. Moms of little kids still maintain something that mothers of teens start to feel that they are losing. I am talking about CONTROL. You have control over little kids’ play dates, schedules, activities, and appointments. Let’s face it – there is some comfort in control.

Fast forward to the teen years. While you may have let your hair out of the ponytail and may have more time to do your own thing you are probably nonetheless a different sort of person than you ever imagined.

Consider the following examples:

  1. A very playful and social woman learns that her 16-year-old son has kissed a girl. She literally begins to take a poll at the grocery store to see if this is normal among 16-year-old  boys. This very competent and highly-functioning woman has suddenly lost her feelings of confidence and is worried sick that she has raised a sex-crazed kid.
  2. This woman’s lovely daughter hasn’t returned her call. It’s been fifteen minutes. This mom calls me. She is convinced that her daughter is in danger. I talk her through this. She calms down. Her husband is several hours late, but she does not appear to be that concerned about him. Her daughter arrives home while she is asking me about the possibility of accidents, suicidality etc. Her daughter does not have a history of depression.
  3. The school bus is late. The mother calls the dispatcher to find out exactly where the bus is. The bus arrives five minutes late and this mother is ready to have a drink. She does not have a history of alcoholism.

So, my question to mothers is… what do you think happens to us when we have kids and teens? Do you have a story that you’d like to share?


Our favorite New York housewife, Alex McCord (Bravo’s “The Real Housewives of New York”) and her husband, Simon van Kempen, has both teamed up to write a how-to on educating couples raising children.  Alex and Simon discusses parenting topics, traveling with infants, hiring caregivers, disciplining.  “Little Kids, Big City” is a must-read for urban parents, as well as for any fan of the show.


Madonna speaks to US Weekly about her new teen clothing line, Material Girl, slated to hit Macy’s stores this August.

“I did a line for H&M, which I enjoyed, but it was a lot of work,” she tells Us Weekly. “I thought, I don’t want to give up the rest of my careers, so I’m not going to do my own line again. But I have a 13-year-old with tireless energy who wanted to do this. I’ve been involved in business meetings, but Lola’s really doing the work. I just sit in the corner on my BlackBerry!”

She says her daughter’s style “is inspired by kids she sees in hip-hop and ballet classes, European influences, bands she listens to. You could say it’s in the DNA — but I could never tell her how to dress! She also comes to my photo and video shoots, pulls outfits together and gives her input to a lot of my fashion-designer friends. Whether it’s Marc Jacobs or Stella McCartney, they always ask her what she thinks.”

For more from Madonna pick up the new Us Weekly (on newsstands Wednesday).